The Horsey Life
Empowering Women - In the Barn & Beyond
Welcome Horsewomen!
Do you love horses? Are you a new, or “encore” horsewoman looking for more than “just” riding lessons? Do you wish for confidence, when you have anxiety or fear?
Stepping into the Horsey Life as an adult brings its own challenges and rewards. We may not be aren’t as nimble as we were as teens, “free” time may be a whole lot less free, and we definitely have more responsibilities on our plate.
Whatever your situation, it can help to have a friend who’s walked in your paddock boots. Someone who knows the wonderful joy horses can bring, but also understands the challenges. Someone who’s in your corner, and doesn’t think the word “should” belongs in anyone’s vocabulary. I’d like to be that person. I’ll share the wisdom my horses and students have given me over my lifetime.
If “thinking outside the ring” is important to you, I hope you’ll enjoy The Horsey Life. Want to connect with other horsewomen? Join The Horsey Life Community on Facebook!
Remember to Love Your Horse, Love Your Life, & Love Yourself!

Why me?
Hi, my name is Penny Hawes. I’m a life-long horse-woman, trainer, riding instructor, and coach. Over my decades of working with horses, and the women who love them, I’ve learned a thing or three about horses – but just as importantly, I’ve learned a LOT about new and “re-newed” horsewomen. My goal with the Horsey Life is to provide a safe place for horsewomen to connect and share our wideom.

What is the Horsey Life?
The Horsey Life is a gathering place for new and “re-newed” horsewomen. Whether you want to ride, drive, or just hang out with horses – you want a Horsey Life.
I’ll be sharing tips and wisdom about your Horsey Life, but also about your life beyond the barn. Our Horsey Life reflects what’s happening in our “real” lives. I take a holistic view and believe that riding is life in a microcosm. My goal is to empower women in the barn & beyond. I hope you’ll join our community!

What I believe
We’re drawn to horses for a reason. Horses often provide us with the mirror we need to look into our own souls and become our very best. Whatever our strengths and growth opportunities are in “real life” are likely to be amplified when we interact with horses. I can help you uncover patterns and take steps to turn your stumbling blocks into mounting blocks.
My Gift to You
Carving out time for our Horsey Life is challenging given the fact that our lives are already so busy, so we want to make the most of every moment we spend at the barn.
If you arrive at the barn after a long day tired and stressed about everything else going on in the world, your stress and anxiety are immediately noticed by your horse.
To help maximize the quality of your horse-time, I’ve created 60 Seconds to Calm – 3 short exercises you can do in 60 seconds or less, anytime, anywhere (yes, even on your horse!) So pop your email address in below and I’ll get 60 Seconds to Calm right out to you!
Love Your Horse, Love Your Life & Love Yourself!
What’s next?
Head over to my Start Here page for an overview of the Horsey Life, including how you can work with me. On the Blog Page, I share timely bits of wisdom I’ve learned from horses and the women who love them. You may notice some posts are in the Horsey Life 101 category – these are aimed at the New Horsewoman. Posts tagged Welcome Back – were written with you “renewed” horsewomen in mind.
I encourage you to read each and every post – you never know what little nugget you might pick up.
Want more inspiration and connection with other midlife horsewomen? Join The Horsey Life Community on Facebook!
Ready to manage all of your horse 🐎
info in one place?? The Horsey Life Planner comes in digital or print versions and is created for real horsepeople! On Sale 💵 for #SmallBusinessSeason! Save 15% in my Etsy Shop with Coupon Code SMALLBIZ15. Link in Bio.🐴

Ready to manage all of your horse 🐎
info in one place?? The Horsey Life Planner comes in digital or print versions and is created for real horsepeople! On Sale 💵 for #SmallBusinessSeason! Save 15% in my Etsy Shop with Coupon Code SMALLBIZ15. Link in Bio.🐴
Hey Horsewomen, we`ve got some exciting news coming your way! 🐴💪🏼
It can be difficult to balance our passion for our horses with the rest of our lives. Between work, family, and other obligations, it can be challenging to find the time and energy to focus on the goals we`ve set in our (Horsey) lives. But it`s important to remember that progress doesn`t happen overnight. It takes dedication and consistency to achieve the things we want.
That`s why we`re thrilled to announce that we`ve been working on a new tool to help horsewomen like you stay on track with your goals. Our upcoming project will make it easier than ever to set, track, and achieve your goals - in the barn and beyond! Whether you`re working towards a specific competition, learning a new skill, or just hoping to improve your overall connection with your horse, our new tool will provide you with the support and guidance you need to succeed.
We`re so excited to share this news with you, and we can`t wait to see the amazing things you`ll accomplish with our new product. Stay tuned for more information and updates, and in the meantime, keep moving towards your goals! 🌟🐎
#horsewomen #equestrianlife #ridinggoals #horseridingtools #horsewomantools #horsegoaltracking #equestriancommunity #goalsetting

Hey Horsewomen, we`ve got some exciting news coming your way! 🐴💪🏼
It can be difficult to balance our passion for our horses with the rest of our lives. Between work, family, and other obligations, it can be challenging to find the time and energy to focus on the goals we`ve set in our (Horsey) lives. But it`s important to remember that progress doesn`t happen overnight. It takes dedication and consistency to achieve the things we want.
That`s why we`re thrilled to announce that we`ve been working on a new tool to help horsewomen like you stay on track with your goals. Our upcoming project will make it easier than ever to set, track, and achieve your goals - in the barn and beyond! Whether you`re working towards a specific competition, learning a new skill, or just hoping to improve your overall connection with your horse, our new tool will provide you with the support and guidance you need to succeed.
We`re so excited to share this news with you, and we can`t wait to see the amazing things you`ll accomplish with our new product. Stay tuned for more information and updates, and in the meantime, keep moving towards your goals! 🌟🐎
#horsewomen #equestrianlife #ridinggoals #horseridingtools #horsewomantools #horsegoaltracking #equestriancommunity #goalsetting
Never underestimate the power of something simple to sooth your soul. #bethemagic #makesmehappy #happysaturday

Never underestimate the power of something simple to sooth your soul. #bethemagic #makesmehappy #happysaturday
As horsewomen, we’re used to being strong, to managing whatever life throws at us. But sometimes that burden is too big to be carried alone. When hugging your horse doesn’t lighten your load, don’t be afraid to ask for help. It’s not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength. #horses #horsewoman #lifecoachhorse #itsnotasignofweakness #itsasignofstrength #askforhelp #askforhelpwhenyouneedit

As horsewomen, we’re used to being strong, to managing whatever life throws at us. But sometimes that burden is too big to be carried alone. When hugging your horse doesn’t lighten your load, don’t be afraid to ask for help. It’s not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength. #horses #horsewoman #lifecoachhorse #itsnotasignofweakness #itsasignofstrength #askforhelp #askforhelpwhenyouneedit
🐴❤️ Age is just a number when it comes to our passion for horses! 🌟 Did you know that 23% of all horse owners are between the ages of 45 and 59? It`s never too late to pursue your love for these magical beings. 🤩
We understand that starting out with horses can be intimidating, but we want to encourage you to take that leap of faith! 🙌 Whether it`s taking riding lessons, volunteering at a local stable, or simply spending time with a friend`s horses, there are endless opportunities to get involved in the wonderful world of horses. 🌎 🐴❤️
Not only can horses bring joy and fulfillment into your life, but they also offer a sense of calm and relaxation that is hard to find elsewhere. 🌿 So why not give it a try? You might just discover a new passion that will bring you happiness for years to come.
Share your stories with us! Have you recently started your journey with horses? Or have you been an equestrian for years? We`d love to hear from you in the comments below. 🤗
#NeverTooOld #PassionForHorses #EquestrianCommunity #HorseLover #FindYourHappiness #HorsebackRiding #EquineTherapy

🐴❤️ Age is just a number when it comes to our passion for horses! 🌟 Did you know that 23% of all horse owners are between the ages of 45 and 59? It`s never too late to pursue your love for these magical beings. 🤩
We understand that starting out with horses can be intimidating, but we want to encourage you to take that leap of faith! 🙌 Whether it`s taking riding lessons, volunteering at a local stable, or simply spending time with a friend`s horses, there are endless opportunities to get involved in the wonderful world of horses. 🌎 🐴❤️
Not only can horses bring joy and fulfillment into your life, but they also offer a sense of calm and relaxation that is hard to find elsewhere. 🌿 So why not give it a try? You might just discover a new passion that will bring you happiness for years to come.
Share your stories with us! Have you recently started your journey with horses? Or have you been an equestrian for years? We`d love to hear from you in the comments below. 🤗
#NeverTooOld #PassionForHorses #EquestrianCommunity #HorseLover #FindYourHappiness #HorsebackRiding #EquineTherapy
Yup, I love most living, breathing things! The coloring on this grasshopper is fantastic! #notjusthorses #naturephotography @natgeo

Yup, I love most living, breathing things! The coloring on this grasshopper is fantastic! #notjusthorses #naturephotography @natgeo
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